Showing posts with label Goal setting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Goal setting. Show all posts

My 2013 Goals

In an attempt to follow my own advise, I decided to post my goals for 2013 here for all to see. Some are bigger or smaller than others. Some I already do anyway but I want to make a mental note to keep doing them. Some will be challenging.
One (the work out routine) is an old friend whom I have yet to conquer, but I believe I have identified the reasons why I have failed in the past and have tailored a plan to work around that. I know it's the oldest one in the book, but I have often found myself using the old excuse of not having time to work out. Solution: Work out at home (mostly) and fit mini-work outs in when I walk Ralphy in the morning (something I already do anyway). The other issue I have run into since I stopped rowing is boredom. I was a personal trainer for a year, I have a bachelors in Exercise Science, I am a chiropractor, and I still get bored working out. I know more about the movement I do than any one human being needed to know about movement, and yet, I mentally yawn just thinking about going to the gym. I rowed in college and ran and lifted weights for cross training, but that extra stuff was all because of my love for rowing. I just wanted to be a good rower. Well, that and I knew I had to go to the boathouse every morning or Rudy would probably find me and hurt me. I think I need a workout that 1. Keeps me interested 2. keeps me accountable or 3. Is rowing. Here are my ideas so far.

1. Groupons are a fabulous way to explore what is available in your area AND keep your workout boredom at bay! I bought three workout related groupons right before the new year, which will give me a great sample-platter of workouts to keep me interested. I really enjoyed the first class I went to and will most likely continue to work out there after the groupon runs out : )

2. As of last night, I have officially recruited a workout buddy! Involving friends is a great way to make working out fun AND keep you accountable. I make a really good workout buddy (I have a lot of toys and experiance putting together workout plans), but I make a lousy solo-work outer.

3. My ultimate goal is to join the boat house here in Tempe so I can get back on the water again. I think if I can get myself in decent shape and start rowing again, it will help me keep my eyes on the prize when I do non-rowing workouts.


Practicing what she preaches writes about,

Nikki Cyr, D.C.

A New Year, A New You

It's almost that time of year again. January 1st marks the beginning of a new year, and for many, an opportunity for change. With the two biggest indulgent, food oriented holidays of the year behind us, the beginning of the new year is the perfect time to wipe the slate clean and make those new years resolutions. The most common new year's resolutions have to do with our health; weight loss goals, giving up smoking or drinking, exercising, and dieting. But as many of us know all too well, sometimes those goals are easier said (on New Year's) than done.

With over 1/3 of the US population considered obese [1] and even more overweight, probably all of us have been on a diet at one point or another. For most, the word diet evokes feelings of mental anguish and deprivation. When people think of diets they think of calorie restriction, eating salads, and making the switch to flavorless "diet" and low calorie products. To add insult to injury, while you eat your plain salad and aspartame ridden, cardboard-flavored "diet" food products, you must deal with the inner torment and yearning for the foods you once loved. For many, the thought of seeing someone else eating the food you really want is simply too painful to bear, and while on our diets we turn ourselves into reclusive hermits, counting the days until our captivity ends.
Which brings me to my second problem with the word diet- the implication that diets are temporary. Often times the diets people go on are so unbearable they don't last more than a few months. Feelings of relief that the diet has ended usually leads to a rebounding of poor choices that causes the person to eat especially unhealthy foods, and thus the stage is set for the weight to come back on hard and fast. This called yo-yo dieting; periods of diet and exercise induced weight loss followed by periods of falling off the wagon and weight gain. This fluctuation is not only counter-productive because it typically leads to weight gain over time, but it's downright unhealthy. The psychological and physical stress of yo-yo dieting may very well be more deleterious than being at a constantly unhealthy weight. That is why it is crucial to identify areas for improvement from past experiences, make a plan, and take the steps that will help you achieve your goals.
Dieting doesn't have to be torture, because torture is merely a state of mind. If we can all learn to feel empowered by our choices, rather than imprisoned by them, we can start on the road toward true health. Of course the first step toward changing how we diet is to change how we define the word diet. There are four primary definitions of the word diet on the merriam-webster dictionary website [2], only one of which fits the profile I just painted. I much prefer this definition:

Diet:
Habitual nourishment.

Two words. At first glance this definition is so simple, but in truth it represents so much more than those two little words ever hoped to convey. To fully understand and appreciate these two words we need to shift how we see our food as well as our relationship with that food.

Habitual. Many of us don't realize that our eating patterns are, in fact, quite habitual; something that is done with regularity and predictability. Yes, it's easier to look at that trip to Burger King in isolation ("one burger is no big deal"), but if you look back on the last few months can you pick up on a habit? Maybe it's not always BK. Maybe it's that popcorn every time you go to the movies, that desert when you went out to eat with friends, those sodas every time you gas up your car, or the constantly stocked stash of Betty Crocker in the pantry. Sure, no one thing is a big deal on it's own and hardly constitutes a habit, but make no mistake- this is still a habit and your body is still feeling the effects of this pattern.

Nourishment. All too often we forget that that which we consume has a greater purpose- to nourish us. Each and every day our cells replicate, get injured, heal themselves, live and breathe. Their busy lives require a multitude of different vitamins, minerals, amino acids, anti-oxidants and other nutrients... none of which can be found in it's usable state in the vast majority of the "food" on grocery store shelves. Putting unhealthy food into your body is like putting WD40 into your car's gasoline tank. Sure, it's still a petroleum-based liquid and given enough of it your car might even make it a few miles down the street, but you know it's not the proper fuel for your car. Just as using improper fuel in your car will cause it to age and breakdown prematurely, so the same will happen to your body if you don't give it the nourishment it needs.

So, as you consider your goals for the new year I hope that you re-think your definition of the word diet. Make the healthy changes in your life positive and long-lasting, not torturous and short-lived. Your 2013 self will thank you for it.

Looking forward to 2013.

Nikki Cyr, D.C.

References
[1] http://www.cdc.gov/obesity/data/adult.html
[2] http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/diet
[3] http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=diet

A Practical Approach to the New Year

Okay, let's face it. New Year's resolutions don't usually have a great success rate [1]. Somewhere around half of Americans make a resolution each year, but few resolutions actually become permanent changes. The most bothersome thing about this is that the vast majority of those resolutions are health related. It breaks my heart to see people fail to follow through with health goals, so I sincerely hope that this post gives you the tools you need to succeed this year.

Nikki's Top Ten Tips to New Year's Success

1. Recall your previous resolutions and what hindered your success in the past. Learn from your mistakes. Did your fitness goals fizzle when you got board with that 24 hour fitness membership? Perhaps dance lessons or a membership to a rock climbing studio would hold your interest longer. Did your dietary goals get tossed aside when your valentine got you that Costco-sized box of chocolates? Plan on bringing in unplanned goodies into the office to share instead of leaving that melding, tempting box at home.

2. Do your homework- Learn from other people's mistakes. Blogs are a fabulous tool to use in this day and age. People post an endless amount of wisdom and numerous stories on blogs and forums that are just waiting to be found. Better yet, find someone who has succeeded at what you are trying to accomplish and ask as many questions as you can.

3. Set realistic goals. This one sounds simple enough, but it's really not. I can't tell you how many times I discussed goals with my clients when I was a personal trainer. Time and time again I would hear "I need to lose 20 lbs in one week for a wedding/reunion/bathing suit season." I explained to these people that their goal was most likely not realistic given the time frame they had given me, but I would do everything in my power to help them achieve that goal as quickly and smoothly as possible. In this case a realistic time frame to lose 20 lbs is 1-2 months with the proper work out and dietary choices. After that initial faster weight loss period (generally the first month or two after making changes), expect 1-2 lbs per week.

4. Write your goals down and tell people about them. The more you talk about your goals and see them the more real they will become. Added bonus: Telling all your friends you've started a fitness routine will keep you accountable and they may even be inspired to take up a similar goal!

5. Set several small goals that can be achieved en route to your ultimate goal. This will help keep you motivated until you reach that big goal. It may be hard to focus on that distant goal after a while, but if you give yourself check-points along the way it will remind you that you are making progress. For example, let's say you want to lose 60 lbs by next New Year's Eve. Perhaps good sub-goals would be to lose 20 lbs by March (keep in mind the initial faster weight loss phase), 30 (half way) by May, and an even 50 by October. Now when you fall off the wagon and have a few too many cookies in April you won't think man, I've only lost 25 lbs.. I'm still so far away from my goal and I've already cheated. Ah well, better luck next year. Instead you can say Yeah, I have a way to go, but I achieved my first goal and am on target to reach my next goal a few weeks early if I stick with it and don't let this derail me!

6. Plan your route to success. Try to anticipate bumps along the road, and what you will do when you encounter them. Maybe you know ahead of time that barbeque is your culinary weakness and you're going to splurge on the 4th of July. Instead of letting that ruin your day, tell yourself ahead of time that you will do at least two things to further your health on that day. Maybe meditating in the morning and a 5k in the afternoon? Or maybe that barbeque chicken wouldn't be such a bad thing if you planned ahead and brought a few healthy side dishes to your 4th of July party. It's all about planning and off-setting any bumps in the road.

7. Plan rewards for when you achieve your goals. No, I'm not saying that losing 5 lbs is reason enough to binge drink and eat an entire Cold Stone cake, but you should be proud of your accomplishments and you should celebrate them. Make yourself some paleo walnut fudge [2] or some coconut avacado chocolate pudding (trust me, it's delicious) [3] for a treat when you reach a benchmark!

8. Picture your life after you achieve your goals. World class athletes have long known the benefits of visualizing success. I am a firm believer that you tend to move toward your dominant thoughts... So why not take advantage of that and think about success? I know it's hard to turn off the worrying autopilot in our brains, but you should, you can, and you must start using your mind for your own good. Meditation is a great way to start practicing this, but not entirely necessary. Whenever you get 5 minutes of down time just close your eyes and picture yourself when your goals are achieved. Who knew day dreaming was so practical!
9. Know that falling off the wagon is not only common, it's part of the learning process. Rather than being consumed with guilt when you inevitably stray from your planned path (see tip 6), use that energy to re-assess what your goal really means to you and what you have learned from the detour. Nothing in life is (or has to be) 100% all the time, and nobody is perfect. Tell yourself ahead of time that it's okay to deviate from the plan from time to time, but it's important to always move forward. Most importantly, don't be tempted to throw in the towel all together when you get steered off course (Well, I had a piece of Cake at the office party. Guess my diet is ruined! Might as well buy those Oreo's I've been craving for the last month!)
10. Involve friends and make it fun! Don't just jog in place with that big frown on your face- invest in a few Zumba tapes with some friends and make a schedule to go over to each others houses to use them. Don't turn that diet of yours into a month of eating salads alone at home- find a few healthy recipes and organize a healthy foods potluck with your friends and family. We are social creatures by nature, and what better way to socialize than over common goals!

Looking forward to a healthier 2013,

Nikki Cyr, D.C.


[1] http://www.statisticbrain.com/new-years-resolution-statistics/
[2] http://www.thepaleomom.com/2012/04/recipe-chocolate-walnut-freezer-fudge.html
[3] http://mysanfranciscokitchen.com/coconut-chocolate-avocado-pudding/